Extremely attractive things: Confidence. Humor. The ability to fulfill or chase after whatever they choose to delve into, whether it be family, love, academics, etc.
What really makes me gravitate towards a person is if I’m able to have a knowledge-filled conversation with them though. I enjoy talking about current issues and am intrigued about opinions and how they’re formed, regardless of whether or not I agree with them. I love to listen to someone explain something they’re clearly interested in. I like enthusiasm. If only more people I talk to enjoy a spirited debate as much as I do.
I don’t enjoy aggressive arrogant individuals that do not stop talking about themselves.
I like responsive people.